Apparently, in just 21 minutes a year, you can make sure you'll probably NEVER get divorced.  You've GOT to be able to spare the time for that, right?  A new study out of Northwestern University in Illinois found that if married couples each WRITE THREE SHORT ESSAYS DURING THE YEAR, they are more likely to have happy, satisfied marriages.  Once every four months, both of you should sit your carcasses down for SEVEN MINUTES and write an essay from the other person's perspective.  Talk about your married life, your arguments, and where you disagree.  According to The Daily Mail, researchers found that afterward, both of you will see a boost in your feelings of love, passion, intimacy, trust, and commitment (The elements that I am an expert in, thus, Grizzly The Love Muffin).  You won't stop arguing...but your arguments will be shorter...AND...your chance of divorce goes WAY DOWN!  The researchers found this works, quote, "whether people were married for one month, 50 years, or anywhere in between."  GIVE IT A TRY!!~The Love Muffin